“Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 (NIV) Early in the morning I approached his crib. Already dressed for my busy day, I greeted him with a smile. As I took him in my arms, he responded by throwing up […]
The Difference Between a Reward and a Bribe
I can picture the scene in my mind like it was yesterday. Chubby legs kicking, back stiffened straight, child wailing, “NO mommy. NO get into the cart.” Exasperated, I wondered if this trip to the grocery store was in vain. However, I needed to get food for dinner that night and this was my only […]
Parenting with a Double Standard
Years ago I attended a parenting class focused on encouraging obedience in our homes. The following general expectations were highlighted: Obedience should be immediate. Obedience should be complete. Obedience should be with a joyful attitude. I sat in the classroom staring at the board in contemplative silence. Truthfully, I wasn’t thinking about my children’s obedience. […]
7 Ways to Combat Competition in Motherhood
Inevitably, as soon as children come into our lives, the comparison game begins. In the early days discussions regarding sleeping, eating, and diaper habits consume our conversations. Soon afterwards, we progress to comparing and contrasting the brilliance of our child’s language skills, walking dexterity, or artistic abilities. These conversations can slowly turn from simple observations […]
Loneliness, Friendship, and the Goodness of God
I like to hear the story behind stories. Since today is the release day of Walking with God in the Season of Motherhood, I thought I’d share the story behind how it came to be written. I’m including lots of pictures, because I like those too. Consider this a picture book post. Fifteen years ago, I was […]