Sometimes when I’m reading through familiar texts of Scripture, one line from a passage stops me in my tracks. Often, it’s not necessarily the main point of the passage, but a truth hidden behind the larger story that the Lord uses to challenge me as I seek to apply His word to my life.
Last week I began a new Bible reading plan and the morning section focused on Mark 2:1-12. It is the story of the paralytic brought to Jesus by his four friends and lowered through the roof. Jesus spoke to him saying, “Son, your sins are forgiven.” Upon hearing His words, the scribes questioned within their hearts, “Why does this man speak like that? He is blaspheming! Who can forgive sins but God alone?” Jesus interacted with their questions and the story concludes with the paralytic’s miraculous healing.
There are many truths readily apparent in this passage. One could focus on the faithfulness of the paralytic’s friends. Or perhaps consider Jesus’ authority in both the spiritual and physical realms. Or glean wisdom from the interaction between Jesus and the scribes. All of these would be interesting points to ponder and use to apply truth in our own lives.
However, the part of the passage that caught my imagination was verse 4, “they removed the roof above him.”
In the midst of reading, my thoughts drifted to the family who hosted this gathering in Capernaum (most likely Peter and his wife). What was on their minds as their home filled with people that day? Did Peter’s wife glance upwards with incredulity as her roof was removed? Was she frustrated or fascinated? Did the four friends take the time to restore the roof? Or, in the midst of all the excitement, did they leave a gaping hole in the middle of the roof?
None of these questions are answered in the text. And by no means is hospitality the main point of the passage. Yet, their faithfulness to open up their home made me stop and ponder this question: Do I have an “open roof policy” in my home? Am I willing for my home to be filled, refashioned, and torn asunder so that people can meet with Jesus? Am I willing for carpet to be stained so that the laughter of children can be the music of my home? Am I willing to put aside my concern of impressing others so that I can focus on house-altering hospitality that points others to Jesus?
A Faithful Example
My parents were a true example to me of people who used their home in unconventional ways to love others. When I was four years old, my Papaw (my mother’s father) came to live with our family. The doctors expected him to live for just a year. He exceeded their expectations and lived with us for nineteen years. I cannot remember any childhood memories without him in our home.
Two years after he first came to live with us, Papaw fell and broke his hip. He could no longer manage the stairs to the guest room, so my parents refashioned our formal living room with a hospital bed, TV, and table where I spent hours putting together puzzles with him. A few years later, his bother (my great uncle) also came to live with us. Diagnosed with cancer, Uncle Jimmy spent the last two years of his life in our home. My mother took him to chemo treatments, cared for his needs, and provided him with the fellowship of family in his last days.
Our formal living room housed two hospital beds. As a child I never realized that this might be unusual (and a bit like the opening scene of Charlie and the Chocolate Factory). I never heard my parents utter a word of complaint about the care they gave or the way their home was rearranged to lovingly provide for these men. By their example, they taught me the beauty of true hospitality.
A Servant’s Heart
A hospitable home does not require exquisite taste or pristine perfection. It does not need a large dwelling or perfect situation. The term hospitable literally derives from the practice of washing the feet of any guest entering the home. At the heart of Biblical hospitality is a humble willingness to serve others. It is not intended to show off what we have, but to demonstrate whom we follow.
As we open our homes, we provide an opportunity for those who enter to encounter the love of Jesus. Perhaps they will hear His words in a Bible study hosted faithfully week after week. Perhaps they will see His kindness as a mom warmly welcomes children into her home, humbly cleaning up the muddy spots they leave behind. Perhaps they will experience His gentleness as one friend tenderly takes the time to sit and listen to the concerns of another.
Instead of focusing our efforts on perfecting our earthly homes, we would do well to set our hearts on the perfect home that awaits us in heaven. As we increasingly hope in our heavenly homes, we become people who faithfully practice hospitality in our earthly tents. Romans 12:13 encourages us to “contribute to the needs of the saints and seek to show hospitality.” We seek to invite others into our homes knowing that Jesus is among us, working modern day miracles in our midst.
Betty A. O. says
I enjoy hosting youths into our home, its one of the blessings i receive each day whenever they come over and see the joy and the laughter that fill my home. Its truly amazing, each time they leave I usually get humbled by the blessing they leave and speak into that place. Truly relates.
Lily Brown says
Thank you for this, Mrs.Kruger…
My husband is nearing the end of his seminary training through RTS and is hoping to move into pastoral ministry next year.
I am often tempted to become anxious over what life will look like as a pastors wife. There are the self imposed expectations of having a perfectly groomed family, quiet toddler during worship, eloquent conversational abilities and having a presentable appearance and home for unexpected hosting. Thank you for the reminder, that all these things are unnecessary for effective ministry….and that truly the most valuable thing I can offer is just a humble ear , a welcoming heart and wide open home where people can meet with Jesus 🙂
Melissa Kruger says
Yes! Your comment makes me think of:
Proverbs 24:3 By wisdom a house is built,
and by understanding it is established;
4 by knowledge the rooms are filled
with all precious and pleasant riches.
I think there is nothing more lovely than a home full of wisdom, understanding and knowledge of the Word overflows from a love for Jesus. To me, that is so much more welcoming and full of treasure than a “perfect” home. I’m excited for you both as you enter into this new stage!
Laura G. says
Right now my husband and I have opened our home to our daughter and her husband, their two little children, and their two pets. We have a modest ranch house and three dogs of our own, so it’s a bit chaotic at times! We love having them live with us while they raise support to be on the mission field. When the time comes for them to move to Asia, how I will miss the little feet pitter-pattering around here, the sticky hugs, the toys all over the floor, etc.!
Melissa Kruger says
I think that same thing when I pass by my children’s rooms that are overflowing with unmade beds and lego projects. I realize it will be a much more sad thing when all their rooms stay perfectly clean because they’re in homes of their own!
Maryanne Helms says
Melissa, this is great encouragement and perspective. I am praying for a more hospitable heart this year, and these are the kinds of words that help spur me on!